I have two adopted shelter cats, Toonces 7 spayed female and Nick 5 neutered male. They were both adopted young and have been with my husband and I problem free for all those wonderful years.
However, we recently moved from a large house to a smaller apartment. For the first 3 weeks Nick was fine, but about two weeks ago he started launching unprovoked attacks on my husband and I. It is not play aggression; he often blocks doorways, corners us in our bedroom, kitchen etc. Often, as my husband and I sit calmly on the sofa watching tv, he will wake up, stretch, walk over to the sofa and begin to "stalk" us, often lowering his body posture and ears. Then he begins to yowl and hiss. At this point if we try to move out of his way he lunges at us, often violently chasing us to wherever we attempt to retreat. He does it all different times of day, to both of us, and to each of us when we are home alone. He can be happily playing with me with his favorite toy, and all of a sudden look at me like a complete stranger and begin to yowl and hiss. Sometimes he will retreat under the dinette table and look at us like he is absolutely terrified of us. Sometimes he will continue to "stalk" us until he calms down. Most of the time it helps if we ignore the behavior and and don't make eye contact, sometimes it doesn't and he attacks anyway. We do not scold him or punish him or try to bribe him out of the episode with food or treats. We try our best to leave him alone and give him his space.
I brought a nationally recognized Vet Behaviorist to the apartment for a home visit, and quite frankly have been very disappointed with the lack of success. She had no advice other than to try different things until the cat is comfortable. We've tried several different changes (small, so as not to upset him) at her recommendation and he has only gotten worse. So far he has not attacked the other cat Toonces. She is completely docile and laid back and we worry if he turns his negative behavior towards her we this could escalate from a problem to a major problem. We would like to solve his issue prior to it escalating to that.
It was at this point I found this board and read about the Social Status Aggression. (Kudos to whoever did the site; I've been all over the Internet and this was the best material I found on feline aggression) The diagnosis sounds similar to his behavior and I was just wondering if anyone has had luck treating this. This is the first I have heard of it.
Nick is the biggest love bug of a cat and it is breaking our hearts to see him experiencing this behavior which is so obviously not "him." Can anyone help! Thank you in advance for any insight and help!




jhandler, Toonces, and Nick!
Happy that you've found us and hope we can offer some insight to what's going on in your cat household.








